Alright It’s Time! Election Tips! A Must Read!

Well the time has come to elect the representatives for national, state, and local elections. If you have not had the chance to go out the vote early, here is some advice and tips for Election Day.

Please be patience! With the record number of citizens coming out to vote this year you should expect a 1-3 hour wait to cast your ballot.

*****Bring a chair, snacks-non-liquid, and even some music

*****Take this time to review the candidates on the issues that matter to you the most.

With the national election that have captivated the minds of so many the state and local elections have not got a lot attention. However, these elections are just important to pay attention to because they directly affect your neighborhood and community at large.

If you’re voting a straight party ticket please, vote for the president first. Otherwise, you will not have not voted in the presidential election instead you would voted for only the state and local elections.

Please read all bond referendums completely! Voting “Yes” or “No” usually will affect the amount of state and local taxes you will have to pay.

*******Also most bonds referendums will determine the funding for local and state expenditures, which in turn will determine the condition of your roads, highways, and schools.

 

Have proof of voter registration. (Bring One or all these items)

 

****Voter registration Card

 

****State-issued ID  Or  Driver’s License

 

****One copy of a utility bill-water, electric, gas showing our current address

Lastly, I would like thank everyone that got involved with this process this year. Let’s not stop on November 4th, please let this be a start to becoming more active in our communities in some shape or form. It may not be in as a leadership role, but I you effort can make a difference. Volunteer your time, skills and /or money to cause that you believe in.  Care about your community and it progress! One thing I can admire about some of the people that experience the Civil Rights Movements is their will for change and the struggle they were willing to endure. They seem understand that it took a combine effort at all levels to reach a goal.  I’m feeling very optimistic about the future.  Now Go Get Out Let Your Voice Be Heard, And Continue Your Comment For  A Better Tomorrow!

New Beginnings Can Start at Anytime of The Year!

I have to be honest I have not been able to post for the past couple of months because my thoughts have been a little busy with other subjects. This includes the topics of heartache of lost relationships, financial stability amongst everything else……. If I keep listing this post might not end.  Well I just wanted everybody know that I’m officially back and dedicated to posting a least twice a week.   In this long journey of life, during this brief episode I have learned that you have to remain focus your goals and the things that are give you a sense of happiness and success. There is always going to be obstacles that you might face when reaching goals, but if all possible try to remain focus. Ok now let’s get back to business!….

 

For upcoming post I will also be adding some new categories “What in the World Going On”- This Category is about the any of my own responds to any World Events , Celebrity Gossips, and any other stories I might want to blurb about.  The other category I‘m going to added “Check This Out!, this categories will be about anything Creative-Fashion, Events, Etc. I hope you all getting excited about the my upcoming discussions…I think this is a new beginning.

I’m back but with a new perspective

Sexy ChairI been gone for a couple of months but will be back… I have rants on business, relationships, and young life.  Please stay tune. I will not be as lazy with my post

A Lady’s Perspective on Today’s News

With the death of so many celebrities during the past couple of weeks….I think I have counted about 6. I felt the need to be put my thoughts into words because sometimes the it is best way to reflect and learn from my experiences.  First, you would have to be up under a rock to not know that Farrah Faucett, Ed McMahon, Steve McNair, and the King of Pop-Michael Jackson passed away.  So much scandal has been surround around Jackson and McNair deaths.

Farrah Faucett is was a true lady she really did give her battle and good fight and I admire her for that. She will be dearly missed. Cancer is the number one killer of women. Ladies please take as many steps as she can perserve your health and prevention these deadly diseases. I am a big advocate for breast cancer research and but will also start being knowledgeable about the to other cancers.

MJ has always in been the spotlight and in death it seems like it has been propel to new levels he is the new Anna Nicole story but is a star that actually had talent.  I’m just voicing my opinion on his situation so hopefully I will not offend nobody.  As to old would say let him rest! I have seen so many report on how he died, what happen in the last minute, who he was with, what he was taking, what he was not taking. Its just crazy!!! In life he was unfairly terrorized and in death it seems have got worse. Everything from his memorial, kids custody, etc is just unbelievably overly exposed.  I cherished the memories that Mike has blessed the world and for the last couple of days  I have enjoyed the radio tributes its great break from some of the mess that plays.

It seem that Mike has always suffered from some pain-physical and mental. Hopefully now he will be able rest in peace in another place far better than his life on earth. The best way I believe that the world could honor this man is by continuing supporting his music and other creative projects.

The Steve McNair story is also tragic and sad. My heart goes out to his wife Mechelle and his kids. It must be extremely embarrassing , anger,and disrespectful emotions coming from her. This should be a lesson for cheating men that grass is not always greener on the other side. In his case he had to pay ultimate cost of his life. It is not for me judge but I can discuss….What do you think about this situation.

Words of Wisdom

What are you putting up with?  Your silence about situations that you don’t like is your vote for those problems to continue!  You are worth only what you think you’re worth.  Remember, people treat you like you treat yourself.  What you walk away from determines what you walk into- Words of Wisdom  Daily Affirmations of Faith by Rev Run  

I try to wake myself up to a quote or message that sets the stage of for my daily living and jumpstart to my daily productivity. Rev. Run one of the members of pioneer of hip-hop group Run DMC and more recently his own family reality show “Run’s House”, published a book a few years back of his daily affirmations and thoughts that is sends out to his circle of friends and associates. Since reading the book for about 6 months it has given me my push to write my own thoughts and advice that I more commonly give out, hence, the motivation of this blog. Believe me it is not something I take lightly as person’s words could be a deterrent or motivation.   

 

I took this particular affirmation in two parts: The importance of exercising your right to be heard and your daily associations.  Because of the political climate has grown to a high range this year with country’s economic turmoil and global relations. Now is the most important time of exercise your right to vote. If you don’t go out and vote your voice is silent and has no significance. The act of voting is very important, and it most states you can do this before November 4th. Not only should you vote but also you need to be informed about the issues and cause/effect of each issue. As each candidates are presenting their stance on the issues.   

 

One thing that I can admire about the Obama’s campaign is the personal appeal to voters. They have been very successful in motivating people in their own importance in the process- by volunteering, donating, and even just that act of talking to one another about the presidential race.  McCain has the same appeal with his VP nominee Gov. Sarah Palin, but its approach that has taken presence as of late, which might be detrimental for his successful bid. Many people think that the only way they can cause change or help a cause is for them to take act of a leader. The leader is important to any cause and that leader has to reflect the views of its followers to reach its main objectives. However, the leader has no strength without a foundation which is for the most part its network of people. My advice to my readers to start to becoming involved at all levels of government! As the presidential race is important the state and local seats are just as important to give attention to and for most part will directly affect your daily living in your community. Really don’t care about whom you are voting for but I do care that you go make a successful effort to vote. I can’t have hearty political discussion with a person that is not on a equal level. So go today or before November 4th.  

 

 

The second part is about you associations and relations with people. I believe you have to stick to the golden rule of treating other as you wanted to be treated. It is a principle that is adopted in most religions and successful relationships of any type. The reasoning on why we can’t seem to follow this simple rule is above my logic. My only resolution is try follow the rule as closely as my own mental temperament (a work in progress). I believe us ladies are especially are more guilty of not being able remove thoughts, people, etc out of lives because our longing for associations. Even the most demur people sometimes let their emotions out direct logical thinking, hint: being in love, wanting to be in the “it” crowd. For the most part any dilemmas we encounter are often created from one allowing such stress and or grief on oneself.  

 

I believe however, it does take time to acquire such logic that Rev. Run gives us about letting go of the old to receive new. There are a variety of different reasoning behind this logic, but for today I will acknowledge that I agree in order begin any upward progression you have to identify your priorities and goals and then make sure anything that can hinder you from that progression you need to eliminate. Even if it’s that reckless relationship-(Hint: person, place, or thing).

It’s About That Time, HBCU Homecomings

I know that I’m little late. But there not time like the present to bring up one of my events for the year. If anybody attended a college especially if its a HBCU-Histotically Black College & University the September-November timeframe is reserved for you college homecoming. My college-Johnson C Smith University-JCSU Class of 2002 Representing  has it homecoming coming up this week October 20-26. I will admit I not the most spirited person for the Golden Bulls but the when homecoming comes even if I’m not attending any of the upcoming activities I reminisce on some my college days with smiles. Hopefully everyone will enjoy it, see you around. Let’s share some memories.

Virtual Dating Part 2

Well its 2 weeks into my virtual dating conquest and I will do the obvious reporting. The first few days were kind of exciting to say least.  I from the pass 2 weeks I have received over 230 messages to my profile that did spark some of my interest.  Out of all the messages I respond to about 6. “I’m sorry I have been a little busy”.  One guy which I will call Guy 1 seem to be very accomplish, and very handsome, it seem like he would be a good match, only one thing he is out-of-state (very long distant). We exchanged about 4 messages then he put his personal contact information to avoid message delays. I was impressed to say the least; his reasoning was that he was giving the site up. Well our conversation was pretty good when I finally got around to talking to him. He was saying a lot of the right things and of course telling me I was cute among other things. One thing I was taken aback by was his conversation at the close. It was a little sexual but general so I did not mind. After a few days of texting and phone calls it seem like he could be someone cool hang out with I am not sure of an actual relationship.

With the contact information he gave me he also included his MySpace page, which was ok. When got the urge to look at the page I was definitely enlighten by Guy 1. It seem I might have come in contact with a different type of player=Womanizer.  He had all these comments from different ladies from different areas of country. Some were kind exchanges but some were a little explicit.  I think his MO was to get the attention of multiple women including myself for some self gratification. Hmmh, this situation reminded of a movie seen years back named “Boomerang” starring Eddie Murphy.  He has a charisma that lots of women would be attracted to.

 So all this thinking I also kind figured the text messages and conversations that we exchanged were not so personalize as I see couple of responses of the ladies on his MySpace page seem like they would be response to that messages that I received.  I did not contact him for a few days …..then he sent me a couple of pictures to my phone. He kept on text me about how missed me and then giving me a couple “Hi, sexy”.  At first I thought he might be a little stuck himself but when I viewed the pictures and they were surprisingly explicit. It had me wondering how I should respond to them. Should I be flattered or just not impressed? It’s a question that has yet to be answered.  I could discuss some of the other guys but I would be typing all night. Well this is just a enough for the first 2 weeks let stay tuned for the next and my final observation.

Virtual Dating For Me?

As as child that grew up in the Information Technology world, I have embraced most high tech uses. I virtual all aspects of my daily living revolves around technology (smart phone, on-line banking, etc.) With all my various uses of technology I never thought about using the Internet for the social side.  After having discussion about meeting quality men while having little time or funds with one of my girlfriends I consider the notion of trying the virtual dating scene.  It has to beat the  typical bar or club scene where you really don’t what to expect. So without giving free advertisement for one of the many  dating websites I posted a profile for the catch.

I posted small bio on my interest and filled some personality scales, about 3 pictures. Well after 2 days I had about 80 “flirts” and 42 messages. I was amazed to say least and some what excited at the response rate. I know I’m a good catch but damn!  As looked threw the flirts I had a little of a different reaction, a majority of men were posting were in the their 40’s. EWWW! & WORM MATERIAL! My grandmother said never to date men that were significantly older that you or else they will give you worms and make you look old. Some of the men on this site should know better!!!

But after fishing threw the mess I did get some prospects that were handsome, and seem according to their profiles have something beneficial to say. I even change my number with one of the prospects and the conversation was good.

My initial advice for my audience is to try it! We meet people everyday this . Virtually, its secure for the most part and has little  chance of embarrassment if rejected. ( And believe me let I had to do!, my rejection is better virtual). And the cost is around the cover to most clubs……!

I will keep you posted on the some of my return it should make for some interesting reading.

Dating in Your Twenties! What is it About?

As another birthday (28th) is approaching for me, I reflect on my life from the last birthday. Among the my yearly reflection was my past year and current dating situation.  Currently, I am in relationship but it is confusing just to say the least. I use to thinking that when you are relationship  with the right one of course, would be bliss and all the dramatic soap opera scenes would be far cry. But as I reflect on my past relationships from my twenties and more recently this past year.

It seems to have been more dramatic and definetly not satisfying. One major I major reason I think its has been difficult is because the there was no clear bondaries and expectations communicated. Am I to blame for the drama or this or am becoming a hopeless romantic in my more mature age?

We as women are sensitive by nature and we tend to make a lot decisions from these emotions. A younger me would approach relationship difficulties with a next sign but as of recent I have not pulled this particular sign out.  Not trying to be prudent but its my belief is that you need to be optimistic about all relationships that you encounter as there is a life lessons from a those relationships. But is this the right approach?

Let’s Discuss It Today

Welcome to the beginning of a Great Relationship! E-Diva welcomes visitors to read, review, and more importantly discuss. My goal is to bring issues and topics of the day, week, and year to the Mix and Mingle. So look forward to some exciting and interesting posts